#973-Quit playing hard to get: Succumbing to books that flirt with you

by Dean Dwyer on December 14, 2009 · View Comments

book seduction

Last night I went to see the movie Invictus.  [Warning:  There is no spoiler alert!]  There was not much for me not to like.  I’m a huge fan of Matt Damon, Morgan Freeman and Clint Eastwood, who directed this movie.

The movie chronicles Nelson Mandela’s first few years as President of South Africa.  I know a bit about Mandela, but watching the movie made me realize this is an extraordinary human being.

Every generation produces a handful of truly amazing people who are head and shoulders above the rest of humanity.  Nelson Mandela is clearly one of those people.

Last week his book, The Long Walk to Freedom, somehow managed to find me while I was at a book store.  This seems to happen every so often, where a book subtly flirts with me.  It uses a sexy little voice to call me over. It coerces me to pick it up, to touch its cover,  to flip through its pages to see what it has to offer.

I am usually able to resist  its advances the first few times, but then it picks up its game.  It sends me little messages; sometimes they come in the form of a movie, sometimes in the form of a conversation or a chance encounter, or sometimes in the form of a life event.

Eventually, it presents enough compelling evidence to inform me it is the book I need at this moment in my life.  The Long Walk to Freedom has done just that.  It has seduced me. It is now officially on my “Books to Buy” list for the holiday season.

I am currently being courted by a few other books as well (The Long Walk To Freedom has no idea that I am playing the field, so I would appreciate it if you keep this between us).

The first is a book by Leo Babauta, called “The Power of Less.“  I have secretly visited it on two occasions, and seem to be smitten by it.  I even got to first base (I skimmed through one of the chapters on reducing email.)

The other is a book called “The Power of Giving.”  Besides what appears to be a weird fetish for the word power, there is just something magical about the title.  I have had one secret encounter with that book to date, and suspect another is coming shortly.

It appears I might be the Tiger Woods of book affairs.

What do you think?  Am I a book ho?  What books are courting you?  What books have seduced you in the past?

Head on over to the comment section to let us know.  I have also left a comment there as well, detailing a  saucy one night stand I had with a very “bad” book.

To an idea worth quitting,

Dean

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  • Krista Flint
    Blessed Unrest-Paul Hawken...a one night stand that turned into an obsession. Dean it will rock your world! Also "Turning one to Another" Margaret Wheatley, "Getting to Maybe" by Francis Wesley,and anything by Malcom Gladwell! Also on-line check out the "Right To Play" Social Marketing Campaign-awesome!
  • Huge Gladwell fan. He could write a book about garbage and I would rush out and buy it. Love "Right to Play." Just added it to my list of things to check out today. Thanks for the heads KF :-)
  • I can't walk into a bookstore and leave empty handed. I usually have more than one book on the go at any given time. If you're the Tiger Woods of books ho's...I guess I might be Wilt Chamberlain!! Anything by Ken Follet, Mitch Albom, John Irving, Christopher Moore (silly stuff, but I'm a sucker for cheap laughs too) along with anything written about running usually ends up at my house.

    I also can't part with my books, to the point that I feel uncomfortable lending them to others in fear they won't come home to daddy! Yeah, I've got a problem!
  • Wilt Chamberlain...that is priceless!! Yeah I hear you about the books. I love having books (even though many are unfinished). I do like lending mine out, but my problem is I don't have a system to write down who has them. But if I can share a book that makes difference with someone then I don't really care if I don't get it back.
  • Eddie Dwyer
    Your stick figure drawings are getting better.

    The expression on today's figure's face, has an eerie resemblance to that of Gingy from the Shrek movies.
  • ha! I thought the same thing. Drawing is like my hair. Bad days and worse days. This was a good bad day.
  • Last month I had a one night stand and I am not the least bit embarrassed by it. The book? Open by Andre Agassi. It is one of the few books where I skipped the foreplay all together and bought the book without even checking to see if it had the goods. The good news. It delivered beyond my imagination. I devoured that book. Not many have had that impact on me, but it was so good, I actually smoked a cigarette when I was finished it. (OK not really. I don't smoke. But if I did, I would have and then I would have went outside and thrown the butt on the sidewalk because that is what all good smokers do right?)
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